Sunday, January 30, 2011

Self Control

Tonight I had a great evening.  I went out with some great friends that I met in Korea.  We drank, ate, and danced together.  It was wonderful.  It is amazing how great people can be when they just act like normal human beings.  However, tonight I had someone try and fight me based on my look and the fact  "I smile too much." Needless to say he is a short fat man who is inept and confused about his role in life.  He has a beautiful girlfriend who is in America.   So, I really do not understand his problem with me.  I do not understand ignorance on his level and it makes me angry.  It  almost made me hurt someone who completely deserved it tonight.  Yet, I didn't.  I actually bought him a drink to smooth things over.  Sorry, just needed to vent about tonight.  


Dean

Sunday, January 23, 2011

6 months later

Hey everyone.  Today's post marks my six month anniversary in Korea.  It is hard to believe I have been here for that long.  It really has gone by extremely fast.  I have learned so much about Korean culture, language, and the world in general.  I have been studying everyday and seen lots of improvement in my Korean language abilities.  I have been studying alone and practicing on unsuspecting cashiers and my Korean co-workers daily.  I have a ton of Korean in my head and I am still learning.  I am working on pulling it all together and building speed in comprehension, recall and fluidity.  It's still a huge work in progress.  Korea has not just helped me study a new language, it has taught me a lot about myself.  Korea has presented me with many challenges.  Some are not that difficult while others seem insurmountable at times.  However, with every obstacle faced I’ve learned what I’m made of.  I’ve also learned (whether I like it not) what I am lacking in.  I think that is why I love boxing.  It is the absolute hardest sport in the world.  It is not just the physical training, which is brutal and absolutely ridiculous at times, but the mental aspect as well.  The Sweat Science, as it is called, forces you to think on your own.  You are totally alone in the ring.  Yes, there are people around you in your corner cheering and supporting you.  The catch is you are the one hitting, getting hit, pushing yourself, reacting, and fighting for whatever reason you are in the ring.  It is ironic that such a brutally physical endeavor brought me to the most brutal mental endeavor I have undertaken.  Learning Korean and the culture is an absolute goal I feel driven to achieve.  I have grown up with some of the smartest people around.  They have learned languages such as Arabic, Hebrew, Korean, and Japanese.  I hope some of their brain cells have worn off on me that last 20 years we grew up together.  I realized I am more of a loner than I thought previously, but without a doubt miss my family and friends.  However, I love the adventure of getting lost on my own in new places, meeting new people, having to think on your feet, and having to appropriately react to your given circumstances.  I have some great stories I will be sharing in the next few weeks.  I have tales from Christmas, New Year's, dealings with drunk Koreans and foreigners, old creepy men on the subway, transferring jobs while trying not to piss too many people off.  I also realized I have no idea what I am truely doing and just have to put faith in myself and the big guy upstairs.  Six months down and at least 13 more to go before I head back home for more than a week.  I will be seeing you all in the next year though.  Deano

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Friends, food and fun

These are the streets in Korea a few days after a storm.  Pretty nasty. 

I found you!
We are buddies!

Cute is everywhere here in Korea.

It was delicious but do not ask what it was.  Traditional Korean food.

Big snow in Bucheon.
We are united again in her home 7,000 miles from where we first met!  Miss you Jeongeun!

Sushi, beef sashimi, and fried sweet potatoes. 

I would be lying if I said I was not nervous about eating raw beef.

Inhibitions thrown to the wind.  Down the hatch.

Dinner was fantastic.  Thanks Sungjoo!!

Miller is king, it even has a crown to prove it.